Monday, February 21, 2005

How we duped Jim...

Happy Birthday Jim! I'm glad your B'day turned out so brilliantly! Congratulations too! National International Law Mooting Champs!! Woo Hoo!! You deserve the win with whipped cream on top of it!

Anyway, it was Jim's Bday yesterday and I can’t resist not narrating the events of the evening when he arrived home. We were upstairs plotting his surprise 'party'. As most of you would have already guessed, being the devious creature I am, I was engineering the operation. It has become increasingly difficult to surprise the people at my place as everyone's had a surprise Bday party last year, so it's almost expected that everyone would get a surprise Bday party. Therefore, I felt we should do something more this time. I took the surprise one step further.

We had a cake and presents ready. We just needed to surprise him. He obviously had already guessed that we were up to something. Being in the jolly mood he was, he was quite gullible. I told him that the housemates have a cake for him and were waiting in the lounge for him, and I told him to "act surprised" when he entered for their sake. So I went into the lounge a couple of minutes before he came in. Ready with my camera on the other side of the room with the lights off, we waited for our victim to come in. When the door creaked open, our victim was taken off-guard completely. He didn’t know what hit him. The answer is EVERYONE! Each of us had whipped cream in our hands, and when he came in, everyone shouted SURPRISE and plastered him with cream!! At first I was too busy taking pics and he was in such a state of shock he couldn’t move... everyone had dispersed in different directions. So, I picked up the whipped cream I had prepared, and slowly just slapped it onto his face and ran. At that moment he came to life and it became a fun house. Everyone running everywhere... someone even ran out of the front door!! People screaming, people hiding... laughter filled the house.

I am glad it was truly an amazing Bday for Jim. Besides, it's so fun to ambush someone like that... However, now that I've set such a dangerous precedent in the house, I'm going to have to be VERY weary and careful when it comes to my bday...

Tuesday, February 08, 2005


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From this moment...

Before I began blogging, I swore never to be one of those people who'd put up lyrics on his/her blog... unfortunately, change is inevitable. Here is the lyrics to a song I felt moved by... especially the bits in bold... ladies and gentleman, "From This Moment" by Shania Twain;

I do swear…that I’ll always be there…
I’d give anything and everything and I will always care
Trough weakness and strength, happiness and sorrow,
For better for worse, I will love you
With every beat of my heart

From this moment…life has begun
From this moment…your are the one
Right beside you is where I belong
From this moment on
From this moment…I have been blessed
I live only for your happiness
And for your love I’d give my last breath
From this moment on

I give my hand to you with all my heart
Can’t wait to live my life with you can’t wait to start
You and I will never be apart
My dreams came true because of you

From this moment…as long as I live
I will love you…I promise you this
There is nothing…I wouldn’t give
From this moment on
Oh oh

You’re the reason I believe in love
And you’re the answer to my prayers from up above
All we need is just the two of us

My dreams…came true…because of you

From…this…moment as long as I live
I will love you, I promise you this
There is nothing I wouldn’t give
From this moment
I will love you as long as I live
From this moment on...

Wednesday, February 02, 2005

Spiderman

Once again I've managed to elude (or so I think) my work and instead let myself be distracted by Spiderman. I was watching Spiderman 2 while having my lunch and just got hooked somehow. It's amazing how you can learn so much from the movie though. I realised that these Marvel superheroes really do give us faith that there is good out there whom will fight for the good of man kind.

I thought there were a couple of parts that were very thought provoking. Of course, the ever so famous line from the first movie - "With great power comes great responsibility". Maaann... that line was heard being quoted all over the globe. Such a simple line, yet the depth it carries, most of us will never know. With great power, you have a choice to use it wisely or use your power for no good. Still, whatever power we may possess, whether it being supernatural or even the authority over others, there comes great responsibility to use that power for the greater good.

Intelligence is a gift to be used for the good of man kind. It is a privilege. Now... I wonder why I'm such a bum. Okay, that's self praise, but hey, I know I can be more than what I am... I'm just too freaking lazy! I know I'm intelligent enough, and if I actually tried, I could do much more than what I already am achieving. I think all of us should use out intelligence wisely. Just stop and ponder on what you can achieve. There is so much potential in every one of us, but are we utilising our talents to the max? Another thing is, we should use what we have to improve our lives and the lives of others... which brings me on to my next point.


Aunt May said “Heroes are courageous, self sacrificing people, setting examples for us... I believe there's a hero in all of us. That keeps us honest, gives us strength, makes us noble and finally allows us to die with pride; even though sometimes we have to be steady and give up the thing we want the most. Even our dreams... "

They're such simple words. But they speak a thousand more with each syllable reverberating when they escaped her lips. All of us have a hero within us. We can choose to believe in ourselves and do the right thing, or we could be crappy and miserable. It keeps us honest, gives us strength, makes us noble and finally allows us to die with pride... wow... in some ways it's overwhelming. We have that choice, and it is very comforting to know that we can be honest and noble. It is also encouraging to know that there is strength in all of us, giving us hope to hold on just that second longer that might make the difference. In the end, we can die in peace, and hopefully, people will remember us for who we were, and if not, we know we can leave with dignity and be proud of ourselves.

But along the way, as she said, we might have to be steady, and we might have to give up out dreams.... We were once taught to never give up our dreams... that we always had to fight for our dreams and overcome all obstacles to achieve them. But if we're too caught up with capturing our dreams, maybe... we might miss out on other opportunities. Opportunities that will enrich our souls, and fulfil our lives in other ways. Just a tiny example I was thinking of was a lawyer. It's his/her dream to make partner in his/her firm, and he/she will not let anything in his/her way. Not even his/her relationship. Maybe he/she's missing out on something bigger... something more important.

It’s clear that her words were very cleverly phrased. SOMETIMES is a very vague word, and with just that one word, again, our faith is restored in that we CAN achieve our dreams AND let the hero in us dictate our honesty. Something my dance teacher told me could come in handy here. She said, as a dancer, you should "balance, but not control". You can achieve all your dreams... balance what you have, but dont try to control everything. Using the example with the lawyer, balance your work commitments and those to your relationship. However, it might be unwise to control everything around you... you might suffocate your relationship or maybe not do enough at work. As in dancing, if you balance yourself, you might have to shape your body into something unexpected to achieve that balance, but whatever shape you take, it will always be beautiful. If you control, it'll look plain. So let go, and let yourself soar to greater heights!

All in all, everyone should watch Spiderman. It's truly amazing what these movies of capered superheroes can teach us. You never know! You might come out a better person!